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HOW
CAN I LIVE LONGER
Mystery
irritates us. We demand answers. Yet we need to be more tolerant
of ambiguity and mystery in our lives. When we are sick, we seek
outside help to become well immediately. Yet feeling bad has its
benefits. We can withdraw and have solitude that is seldom found
in our busy world. We forget that we can have pain without suffering.
Friends want to always give us advice. They demand you do something,
anything! But they rarely tell you what to do.
You
can be healthy and ill at the same time. You will survive every
moment except the last one. Be grateful for sickness occasionally
for you only experience health when there is an element of illness.
Illness is a natural part of life. How do you beat illness, say
cancer? Usually you aggressively look for action. Doing nothing
is not acceptable. Any therapy will work some of the time.
SPONTANEOUS
REGRESSION always remains alive with
illness along for the ride. No matter what happens, God's will is
done. Don't bargain with God and fight it. Just be grateful. An
attitude of acceptance often precedes the spontaneous regression
or cure. You can't sudenly become spiritual to be well but must
be true to yourself. You didn't get your illness because of imperfections
in your way of living. You often think you must change your ways
of eating and living. Gee, you think, "I'm still sick because
I didn't try hard enough." We all seek immortality yet are
bored on a rainy Sunday. How did I get cured? Why did I get cured?
Now that I am well, what should I do with the rest of my life?
MEDICINE
BECAME SCIENTIFIC around the Civil War. Physcians see the body as
a clock that works in a particular way. Anything that effects body
functions, including prayer, belongs to the watchmaker, the doctor.
Yet
some people often take total personal control and abandon medical
treatments. They deny what is happening and wonder how they then
can be responsible for what is happening in their lives. We bring
apprehension into our total awareness, not trusting the unconscious.
Let go! Let the unknown come to your aid. Trust and make friends
with your unconscious.
You
don't create the world. You are the world, 100%. When you stop
trying to make things happen, you can connect with your higher power.
It's hard to be passive and inactive. But great ideas come in silence
and stillnes..
If
you were to say: "Illness, I look at you as my best teacher.
I love you and respect you. You are safe with me. I can live with
you in me for a long time. I want what is best for me, even if its
death."
To
surrender is a powerful tool. By giving up you refuse to act.
Don't fight all your bad thoughts. You will not be pushed around
or controlled by these thoughts. Our society needs noise. Yet talking
and listening block our deeper connection with our Higher Power.
What
is the most powerful drug that can defeat your illness? LOVE.
Loving others is good for everyone's health. If you are connected
with others by love, you develop an emotional bond with them. Love
and caring results in healing. Anything can happen in the course
of a disease. As long as your fate is unkown you have a chance.
Unobserved events can alter the course of any illness.
Today's
five minute office visit with everything tested can make you think
you are sick. Your cholesterol is borderline, your blood pressure
is up 5 points, your prostate seems enlarged, you are overweight,
your breast has some thinckness in one area, you have early signs
of a cataract, and osteoporosis is beginning to appear.
"Oh
dear! I came in just for my annual physical feeling fine, and I
now thing I am sich." Because of legal reasons the doctor will
often prescribe medicine. The doctor has several drugs that can
prevent all these things from becoming problems. Some of them now
make you sick from their side effects. folks, people in other countries
without disease prevention live longer.
Your
doctor's attitude has a great role in your healing. He can talk
up a medicine and he himself believes it will work and cure you.
No matter what the drug is, 40% of the time you will get well (the
placebo effect). No treatment is free of side effects. Ask of any
treatment its downside, side effects, and harmful possibilities.
If
some drug appeals to you, you will make sense out of it. It's easy
for the doctor to deny some of your symptoms because if they are
valid thay challenge him and this takes time, and your visit is
only for five minutes. Doctors have an emotional need to believe
they are right and make you, the patient believe it. Today the pressures
on the doctor make them remote, aloof, non-involved, and emotionally
detached.
Ask
yourself, "Does my doctor make me feel better or worse when
I am around him? Do you cancel appointments because yo fell workse
after you visit your doctor?"
But
what can you do? A wise doctor uses what works, drugs, prayer, herbs,
and sound advice. Never accept a treatment that you don't believe
in. Don't be pessimistic. If you believe prayer works, use it. If
you believe drugs work, use them. If you believe some herb will
help try it. If you feel acupuncture might help, go for it. Above
all find a flexible and tolerant doctor that honors your point of
view.
Since
1600 the medical profession has had a destiny to conquir and rule
natue. What we investigate we give respect and reverence. If acupuncture
were only a placebo effect, what would it matter? The cure is no
less real or less appreciated by the patient. Can we accept what
we can not understand? Many scientific studies involve too few patients.
There is no assessment of one group being sicker than another. Did
they have really the same illness? Did they have the same criteria
for improvement and did the treatments vary. Did the group vary
as to age and sex?
Modern
medical science was invented and did not come down from heaven.
There is now a near total reliance on drugs, surgery, and radiation.
Western modern medicine cannot believe that non-material forms of
healing exsist. There is a great resistance to change. The doctor's
views of the world are believed by him to be true.
After
all doctors were taught what to believe in medical school and the
inner circle of experts at Harvard have set the program. Healing
is rejected without attention to evidence. There is conflict with
wht is perceived and what is believed. They fear getting lost in
mysticism and equate anything unknown to emptiness, annihilation,
and even death. They also fear the powers of others, thinking strange
and different people possess it. No average person could have such
gifts of healing. Since alternative methods of healing cannot be
repoduced predictabley it cannot work. Its raining now and the weatherman
did not predict it. Does it mean its not raining?
Careers,
research grants, professorships and health products are at stake.
The health industry takes 15% of our national income. It's big business.
Medical scientists wage their careers on particular narrow approaches.
They get from the National Institute of Health (NIH) large amounts
of research money to test their thories. They are committed to one
approach and cannot see the "YOU FAILED" sign on the wall.
(Our approach to cancer with irradiation and chemotherapy has not
changed in 50 years and has been a failure.)
Instead
of groups acting as checks on each other, the drug companies, researchers,
NIH, and AMA all play the same song. Equally biased information
frequently mislead all the good conscientious physicians you see
day to day. Energy and money are spent with little effect. They
target only relief of symptoms with drugs. There is no attempt to
seek solutions to prevent illness.
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LIFE
EXPECTANCY
Over
the last 40 years life expectancy has improved. Living today is
very safe. A 45-year-old woman will live to be 88 and man to 82.
In 1987 the average was 74. If you smoke one pack daily, your mortality
doubles. If you are 35 and a smoker you will die 7 years earlier.
If you are 70 and smoking you will die 3 years earlier. Half of
smokers age 25 will not make 70 while only 15% of non smokers will
not make 70. Women today are tougher and more resilient than men
and live 7 years longer than men.
People
around the world on different diets all live to be 75-77 years old
today. The japanese eat low saturated fat diest and have had modern
medicine for only 45 years. The Swill eat a high amount of animal
fat and have 1/2 the strokes and 1/5 of the cancers of the stomach
that we do. The Greeks live on olive oil and have had modern medicen
only for the last 10 years. Despite all the differences they all
die at 75-77 years.
Our
hospitals have power over our length of life. Bugs love them and
multiply in them. The bacteria have learned to adept and flourish.
Unrelated patients are packed together and stay only a short time.
We develop isolation lists and put people with spreadable diseases
in them. Yet wihin 2 hours of the presence of disease the hospital
air space exposes all the other patients.
Well
how can I live longer? Those who adjust to the pressures and
demands of life live the longest. There is higher longevity in being
married (50% of Americans are divorced), being a college graduate,
white-collar worker and being religious. The break up of marriage
by death or divorce is the most stressful event in life. Women do
better than men. Begetarians have fewer coronaries heart disease
but more strokes and stomach cancers. Longevity studies show mice
live longer by cutting theri calories down by 30%. How many 80-year-olds
do you know that are obese?
Is
there a master clock that governs the four stages of our lives:
gestation, development, maturity, and decline. Can it be reset?
Common factors in diseases must be identified. What is the similarity
in cancer, heart disease, arthritis, diabetes, Alzheimer's disease,
kidney disease and osteoporosis?
If
we eliminated all cancers, our life expectancy would only rise by
2 years. Yet we spend two billion dollars annually on cancer and
heart disease and only 100 million dollars on aging. We must have
a basic understanding of the aging process. We treat symptoms of
diseases that exist and do not basic biologic research. Thank you
drug companies.
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